Fifi

    Gender: Female
    Location: Lincolnshire
    Relationship: Married
    Orientation: Straight
    Children: Not for Me
    Body Type: Some extra baggage
    Ethnicity: White / Caucasian
    About Me: Went on holiday a cycling holiday in 2002 and woke up paralysed! No big accident, no big trauma, just a cord crushed by a blood clot. Some people have all the luck!! I lived in France for four years now back in the UK and so far I love it!
    Music: Yes but I am in a bit of a time warp, got stuck in the 70-80s still love Pink Floyd, Police, Genesis, Stones, Motown. But love Nora Jones, Beverly Knight, Tina Turner and Eva Cassidy. Paul Weller is the king, I could listen to him breathing and that would do for me!!
    Movies: 1. Shirley Valentine 2. Gone with the Wind 3. Brassed Off 4. Pretty Woman 5. Take me back home (New Zealand film that is the funniest film in the world) 6. Gilda 7. True Grit
    TV: History stuff, old movies, Strictly, those dramas where they rush around on horses and wear long frocks!!
    Books: Just about anything at the moment that will distract me from getting on with writing my own!
    Likes: Food, champagne, horse racing, Formula 1 but not the politics, cats especially Dave and Ross my constant companions, my husband who is a star.
    Dislikes: People who ask me "Why are you in a chair?" or "Are you still using your chair?" They really are d**kheads!! People who stare. As if they hadn't seen a fat woman in a wheelchair before. I am not unique. I usually poke my tongue out, or dribble, or do a few voluntary spasms. That usually sorts them out!! Fuss, I can do a lot myself. Diets, although I ought to learn to love them!! Cobbles, I hate cobbles. Set my legs on fire and makes them feel like they are going to explode!
    Hobbies: Writing, reading, cooking and just recently selling houses!!!
    Vices: I'm a bit sensitive and I have a sharp wit which is attached to a vicious tongue.
    Virtues: I'm not sure if it's a virtue, but I like to tell it how it is. No messing around.
    Heroes: I'd like to think of someone inspirational and famous but my number one hero is my husband. I know that sounds so sickly but he has put up with a lot and he still bounces back and he still cares so that puts him pretty high up in my estimation.

    Wonderful weekend

    Monday, October 13, 2008, 04:01 PM CET [General]

    Well I just got back from a wonderful weekend with my old school friend Kate.  She and he husband, the lovely Gareth are the best hosts in the world.  They have moved to a new home which is truly charming, if a little wheelchair challenging, but we recognised that was a problem before and accepted that the world is not a perfect one for those of us who lead a wheeled life!  We went to an apple pressing (hopefully we will return for cider tasting in the early spring) and to their lovely village church to look at the millenium tapestry which was beautiful.  Their neighbour kindly rushing into the church to get the ramps for the steps to make my life a bit easier.  Truly awsome tapestry, brilliant workmanship and colours which I undrestand caused such controversy in the village that the designer and the coordinator both moved away from a village that can only be described as a little bit of heaven in the south of England.

    We went home and although it was october we sat on the terrace eating Kate's special recipe flapjack/bonfire toffee dentist's friend and playing scrabble.  AFter the awful summer it seemed like the gods were smiling on us.

    Sunday was the village conker match.  I decided that at only 3ft 6ins that I was more likely toget clonked on the bonce or knock someones natural conkers off so restrained myself, however as I so deprived of visits to retail outlets I took full advantage of the shopping opportunities offered by the stall holders and bought some pictures for my hall and some christmas pressies for my neices and nephews.

    Thanks to Kate and Gareth for a great weekend.  I am looking forward to the next one when we will be together, maybe here in Lincolnshire.

    Only blot on the enjoyment of the weekend is that I have done something to my hip which is very painful.  Had it Xrayed and nothing appears broken but boy oh boy it hurts badly so I am going back to my doc tomorrow for another opinion.

     

     

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    So that was an English summer!

    Tuesday, September 30, 2008, 11:53 AM CET [General]

    Well what a disappointment that was. Summer has left me feeling like I am suffering from the winter blues! I know I should not make comparisons with the weather in France and this year was "bad" every where but really is this what global warming has in store for us. Damp, dull and depressing. I can hardly wait for winter to arrive, to see what the change in the weather is going to be like. I am expecting, dull damp and cold. We have had to put on the heating and light the fire to keep warm. Well to keep me warm cos I do feel the cold so badly. I had sort of forgotten that one of the reasons for going to France was "never to feel cold again".

    Thursday sees me off again for a further fitting of my new calliper. The decision last time to start again will hopefully have made the difference and we will be somewhere near an orthotic that fits in more than one place!! Here is hoping anyway I just love that three hours of travelling through the mad traffic that seems to have invaded middle England. For those of you who live in other countries, don't be fooled into thinking England is all cute cottages and thatch with quiet winding lanes, it is mayhem and madness on the roads with houses that have been designed by architects out for a quick buck by building horrid boxes with a pastiche fascades generally too small to swing even a Manx cat!! But I digress to my favourate subject of the ruination of our country by politicians and planners on which I could rant for hours.

    Still waiting for completion of my wet room and bedroom therefore balancing on a board over the bath for showering purposes. I think I need to kick the workman (husband) into action. Any suggestions (nothing too rude please) on how I can get the work done more quickly??

    Fifi

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    NEWPORT IS OLD WORLD PRETTY, BUT NOT VERY CHAIR FRIENDLY IN A WAY. But then again being from the tiny little state of Rhode Island I walked alot of these street too. I am posting more soon, show the world my world in my power chair,,,,,,,,,,,,aka wheelchair cam..........google gpellet357 that is me.

    Gary
    October 01, 2008
    07:23 AM CET

    thank you xsophx

    sophe
    September 12, 2008
    04:07 PM CET

    I LOVE your comment about what u should say to people who ask u what happened. That made me smile!!
    I'm going through an anger stage right now. Miss my singing career, acting and living a pain free existance back then. I'm in chronic headache pain, and now my legs are acting up...u get the picture. Have u ever goten angrey at someone for saying something stupid to u in ur chair? How do u handle the rude people who act like they were raised in a barn?!
    Take care, I'm glad you're doing better, and it's my pleasure to help, if I can!!

    Emily
    May 18, 2008
    06:01 AM CET

    thank you for you comment. Yeah think you are right just dont wonna rush into something im gonna get bored with.
    i realy want to learn calipers.
    I spend alot of time in doors and playing the computer, friends and family windge at me alot but just dont know what to do all my friends work.
    i got out of hospital after accident in under 2 munths wish i had stayed in there so i could of made some friends lol.

    neil
    March 13, 2008
    01:05 PM CET
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